Replying to a reader: Topic: Mistaking Acceptance for Love Blog

Message From A Reader: The way I understand the terms ‘love,’ ‘acceptance’ and ‘like’ is firstly to see a distinction between who a person is, (which is essentially their real nature, their personality), and their beliefs/attitudes/behaviours, (which, of course, can change with time and experiences). I feel that acceptance is a quality of love, just … More Replying to a reader: Topic: Mistaking Acceptance for Love Blog

When everyone else should change because you are PERFECT (or at least, that’s what I tell myself)

A couple of months back, I had a conversation with a friend.  I started by whinging and moaning about how I didn’t feel like I could change. Anna – “I feel it’s hopeless. I’ve tried it before and I’ve never been able to have a big emotional change on something. I’ve never got through a … More When everyone else should change because you are PERFECT (or at least, that’s what I tell myself)